Being a single woman carries a stench of unworthiness. The idea a woman would voluntarily chose singleness over a relationship is a red flag for most people. But for women who actually take the time to invest in personal development, they realize just how rare they are and just how much they’re not going to […]
Where are my perfectionists at? This topic hits home because when you live and die by your success, it gets scary once things start going your way. Rather than enjoying things going right, my brain immediately started worrying if things would fall apart. Here are three ways you can keep your confidence when things are […]
Confidence isn’t based on your situation. But for most people, that’s how they measure it. When everything is going wrong, you doubt yourself and wonder if you ever really knew what you were doing in the first place. True confidence comes from knowing who you are, regardless of the circumstances and taking action anyway. The […]
There’s a fine line between being a doormat and an arrogant jerk. Learning this balance is important to building your confidence. If you care too much what others think of you, you’ll never give yourself permission to fully be yourself. (And on the flip side, if you don’t care about the opinions of others… you […]
Oh gosh, where to begin. How did liking who we are become an incredibly difficult daily struggle? When did self criticism become the norm? How did we get here? I know how, marketing. Back in the 60’s companies got really good at making us feel like something was missing. If we just bought their product, […]
If God asked you to give that up, would you? You know the thing. The thing you’re holding onto so tightly you’re terrified of letting it go. That thing. Chances are, that’s where you’re getting your identity right now. Sometimes it’s a job, a boyfriend, your kids, or even a certain lifestyle you’re living. If […]
Having a positive body image actually doesn’t start with self love. (here’s a Confidently She podcast episode about that) p.s. join the Summer Semester of Confidently She – The Program HERE That’s like saying having a birthday cake starts with lighting the candles. Sure, that’s technically what makes a regular cake into a birthday cake, […]
The way I see it, confident people are the people who are willing to be vulnerable. Insecurity lies in safety, confidence lies in risk. Confident people are okay with opening themselves up to things like rejection or criticism or not getting the approval of other people, even letting people down. Confident people […]
If you want to feel more confident about your body, it starts with understanding why you’re not already there. Ignoring your feelings, pretending like your insecurities aren’t there, that’s not helping you get anywhere. In order to become the best version of yourself, you have to accept all your flaws. This doesn’t […]
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