Confidence isn’t based on your situation. But for most people, that’s how they measure it. When everything is going wrong, you doubt yourself and wonder if you ever really knew what you were doing in the first place. True confidence comes from knowing who you are, regardless of the circumstances and taking action anyway. The […]
You might be sabotaging your confidence. Not on purpose, obviously. If you’re feeling insecure or doubting yourself, the answer might be in NOT doing certain things. Before I get into this, I want you to know I’ve personally done all these things – so there’s no judgement. Plus, my VIP coaching day is designed to […]
Where does confidence come from? How can you be confident when you keep messing up? Confidence doesn’t come from being perfect or looking a certain way. Anyone who’s confident will tell you it comes from actually facing their inner voice and doing the work others are afraid to do. For Christians, it means trusting that […]
The way I see it, confident people are the people who are willing to be vulnerable. Insecurity lies in safety, confidence lies in risk. Confident people are okay with opening themselves up to things like rejection or criticism or not getting the approval of other people, even letting people down. Confident people […]
I struggle with obsessing over negative thoughts. Everyone does. You’re probably worried about things that happened in the past or things that might happen in the future. Which one do you gravitate towards? I worry about the future more than I dwell on the past. Everything you’re worried about right now is an earthly thing. […]
Trusting in yourself is a big topic right now. Thankfully, we are moving away from getting our identity from other people. Our culture is focusing less on what other people think and more on finding approval within ourselves, which I think is great. But there has to be another level to it when you’re truly […]
How does social media impact your body image and self esteem? Have you ever thought to yourself, “is Instagram bad for my body image?” I know I have. In fact, I’ve gone through and unfollowed every account that makes me feel insecure, critical, or doubtful of my self worth. I think sometimes we tell ourselves […]
There’s a difference between God’s plan for your life and the path you choose to take. I do believe that God has the same plan for everyone – it’s written in the Bible. When I used to think of God’s plan, I thought of like, my life path. Everything was “part of God’s plan” because […]
I’m like woohoo – baby you can get it all. This episode has 2009 Bow Wow stuck in my head – in the best way. Want to know how to have it all? Start by asking yourself what that really means to you. Not what it means to your friends, family, or partner. We get […]
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